Irfan Fandi,18 opens up about 5-year relationship with silat player

27 February 2016 / 7 months 3 weeks ago

Lisa Twang
The New Paper
Feb 26, 2016

As the eldest son of local football legend Fandi Ahmad, 18-year-old Irfan Fandi has amassed a long list of accomplishments for his talent on the football field.

The Guardian newspaper in the UK named the strapping heart-throb one of the 40 best young talents in world football in 2014 and in January, he joined the Home United team.

His latest accomplishment: a nomination for Favourite Asian Sports Star at the Nickelodeon 2016 Kids' Choice Awards in Los Angeles on March 12. 

Besides his passion for football, Irfan also has a special place in his heart for his girlfriend of five years, national silat team member Nurul Suhaila Mohamed Saiful.

"She just turned 21, and I went to her house last night to give her balloons and a cake," he told The New Paper in an interview yesterday.

"She was shocked because I'm not the romantic kind at all. I think this will be my last time doing this," he joked.

An accomplished silat exponent, Nurul Suhaila clinched a bronze medal for her category (Class D, 60 to 65kg) at last year's SEA Games and a silver medal at last year's Pencak Silat Championships.

She also won a gold medal at the Sijori Pencak Silat Championships in 2014.

Though their relationship is known in local sports circles, Irfan said this is the first time he is discussing it with the media.

The young couple met six years ago when they were in the Singapore Sports School and lived in separate dormitories on the same floor.


"We had some awkward encounters in the lift, and eventually we exchanged numbers and got to know each other," said Irfan.

Besides the usual movie and dinner dates, Irfan and Nurul Suhaila also bond over their shared love for sports.

"We like to go to the gym and run together, although we don't often find time as our schedules are quite tight.

"I appreciate that she sees me differently from other people, and knows me for who I really am."

During his training stint in Chile from late 2013 to early last year with football club Universidad Catolica, the pair put their relationship on hold.

But they continued to keep in touch via Skype, he said.

He added that his family, including dad Fandi and his mum, former model Wendy Jacobs, have met Nurul Suhaila and approve of the relationship.

As Irfan prepares to enter national service later this year, he is hoping for a post that allows him to continue his football training.

He is also interested in the entertainment scene, citing modelling, acting and hosting as future possibilities.

While he used to post on his Instagram account shirtless pictures of himself which show off his chiselled abs, he said he has since removed them because he would prefer fans to focus on his football career.

"My mum has been persuading me to model, but I've not had the chance so far. Still, I'm open to it.

"I don't mind doing both football and modelling, like (British superstar David Beckham's son) Brooklyn Beckham."

This article was first published on February 26, 2016.
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